Phone, invite, say no
I can make a phone call, invite someone, accept an invitation or say no politely, and leave a message.
Declared core time. Two of the core blocks carry no figure at all, so the real lesson is longer than this sum.
Grammar
5 minInviting — three ways, from the most polite to the most casual:
| Would you like to come to dinner on Saturday? | the polite invitation |
| How about going to the cinema? | an idea to try (+ -ing) |
| Let's go to the cinema. | among friends: we both go (A1 #16) |
Would you like to + a verb is a polite offer; How about + the -ing form.
Accepting and saying no:
| accept | say no |
|---|---|
| Yes, I'd love to. | I'd love to, but I'm busy on Saturday. |
| That sounds great. | I'm afraid I can't — I'm working. |
| Thanks, that's very kind. | Maybe another time? |
An English refusal almost never starts with the word no. First thanks or regret, then the reason, then another option.
I'd rather — saying that you would prefer something else:
| I'd rather stay at home. | staying at home is better for me |
| I'd rather not, thanks. | a soft "no" |
After I'd rather the verb comes WITHOUT to.
A phone call:
| Hello, this is Paulo. | you say who is calling |
| Can I speak to Anna, please? | you ask for the person you want |
| Who's calling? | they ask for your name |
| She's not here. Can I take a message? | they offer to pass on your words |
| Could you ask her to call me back? | you leave a message |
| Sorry, you've got the wrong number. | you called the wrong person |
Common learner errors
written for your languageI am on the phone
✗ I am Paulo
✗ Here is Paulo
✓ This is Paulo
Spanish Soy Paulo and Italian Sono Paolo say "I am", German Hier ist Stefan says "here is". On the phone English uses only this is.
How about + the infinitive
✗ How about to go?
✓ How about going?
Spanish ¿Qué tal ir…? and Portuguese Que tal ir…? have an infinitive here. about is a preposition, and after it there is always the -ing form.
I'd rather with to
✗ I'd rather to stay at home
✓ I'd rather stay at home
Learners add to because of I'd like to and I'd love to; after rather there is none.
A refusal with only "no"
✗ No, I can't with nothing after it sounds cold → ✓ I'd love to, but I'm busy on Saturday. Maybe another time? In many languages a short "no" is polite enough; in English a refusal needs regret, a reason and another option.
Pronunciation
3 minA polite refusal depends on an intonation of regret — a rise in the middle and a soft fall:
I'd love to ↗, but I'm busy on Saturday ↘
A sharp fall on love to turns regret into a formality.
I'd is /aɪd/, one syllable; would you in fast speech merges into /ˈwʊdʒu/: /d/ and /j/ become /dʒ/, as in job.
Text
3 minHello, this is Paulo. Can I speak to Anna, please?
I'm afraid she's not here. Can I take a message?
Yes, please. Could you ask her to call me back?
Of course.
Thank you. Oh, and one more thing: would you like to come to dinner on Saturday?
I'd love to, but I'm working that evening. Maybe another time?
Exercises
8–10 min1. Gap fill.
- come to dinner on Saturday?
- going to the cinema?
- , but I'm busy
- stay at home, actually
Show the answers
2. Error correction.
- I am Paulo. (on the phone)
- How about to go to the cinema?
- I'd rather to stay at home.
Show the answers
3. Matching.
- Can I speak to Anna?
- Who's calling?
- Would you like to come?
Show the answers
4. Say no politely
to an invitation to the cinema on Saturday — in three parts: regret, the reason, another option. Example: I'd love to, but I'm working on Saturday. Maybe next week?
Summary
Covered
- three ways to invite
- accepting and saying no
- I'd rather
- six phrases for the phone
Next — lesson 33: writing without mistakes.
End of the core
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Vocabulary for your deck
13 words- invite /ɪnˈvaɪt/ to ask someone to come to a party, a dinner and so on
- invitation /ˌɪnvɪˈteɪʃn/ when you ask someone to come somewhere
- voicemail /ˈvɔɪsmeɪl/ a phone message you leave when nobody answers
- put through /pʊt ˈθruː/ to connect a caller to another person's phone
- wrong number /rɒŋ ˈnʌmbə/ a phone number that is not the one you wanted
- another /əˈnʌðə/ a different one; one more
- kind /kaɪnd/ nice and friendly to other people
- sounds great /saʊndz ˈɡreɪt/ what you say when you like an idea
- I'd rather /aɪd ˈrɑːðə/ I would prefer to
- busy /ˈbɪzi/ with a lot to do; not free
- dinner /ˈdɪnə/ the meal in the evening
- party /ˈpɑːti/ a time when people meet to eat, drink and have fun
- speak to /ˈspiːk tuː/ to talk with someone
Writing
A dialogue of three lines: you call, the person is not there, you leave a message and invite them.
Example
— Hello, this is Paulo. Can I speak to Anna? — She's not here. Can I take a message? — Could you ask her to call me back? And would you like to come to dinner on Saturday?
Checklist
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